When I found out about Nancy Doyle’s company that supports, assesses and coaches people who are neurodiverse (ND) – GeniusWithin Ltd – I have to confess my emotional rollercoaster response took me aback.

I experienced joy, envy,  excitement and self-recrimination and my thoughts went something like this:

“It’s great that someone is promoting the Genius that is within people like me!  I wish I had built up that company, missed the boat now. They could even help me perhaps, that’s great! Why didn’t I build up something like that then, procrastinating again obviously. Need to do better.”

GeniusWithin Ltd’s FaceBook page http://www.facebook.com/GeniusWithinLtd?ref=ts&fref=ts shows a diagram of the positive attributes that may be found in people with a particular neurodiverse profile (from Mary Colley’s DANDA Venn diagram of the ND spectrum of difficulties).

(Thinks: “Why didn’t I think of doing that?” )

Anyone astute enough can see I do a good line in self criticism… even after all these years of personal development,  spiritual mentoring, counselling, supervision and coaching…  Sigh…

The title of a still relevant and useful but now very old book, says it all:  “Excuse me… Your Rejection Is Showing”.  (Noel and Phyl Gibson, 1990. Published by  Freedom In Christ Ministries Trust: Drummoyne, Australia).

I do have an early background of being (or feeling) rejected and/or abandoned.  One feels that after more than 30 years of working on the tendency to protect myself against being rejected again, feeling I don’t make the grade no matter how hard I work blah blah blah… bleat bleat bleat!  (no wonder humans were likened to sheep in the Bible…)

With a red face I recall that during the late 1990’s and early years in the new millenium, I wrote articles for Woman Alive magazine on related subjects: “Price of Perfection”; “Curse of Comparison”; “Do You Walk by Faith – or Limp” and “Mind Body and Spirit” (a few others too).

The one I notice I didn’t get round to finishing and get published had the working title: “Reject.”  The whole subject was linked in my mind to the children’s TV programme of the late 1980’s to mid 1990’s, “The Raggy Dolls”.

See http://http://www.classickidstv.co.uk/wiki/The_Raggy_Dolls

These toys were stamped ‘reject’ and thrown down the reject shute  because of various manufacturing faults. Yet they had really special adventures, were interesting characters despite not been stamped ‘accepted’ and supported one another.

The last chorus of the series’ song goes:

“It’s not much of a life when you’re just a pretty face. Just to be whoever you are is no disgrace. Don’t be scared if you don’t fit in, look who’s in the reject bin. It’s the Raggy Dolls, Raggy Dolls, dolls like you and me”

Perhaps I never finished writing the article not because I procrastinated (although that would be a possibility…) but because I wasn’t ‘brewed’ enough yet, I still struggled to put the “Accepted” label on myself.

GeniusWithin’s diagram of positive attributes for my particular ND profile (ADHD – I, dyspraxia, mild dyslexia and occassional Asperger type characteristics) indicates my attributes as

I posted that list on their comments box and commented excitedly: “I’m like an exotic flower in a bouquet of daisies. ” 

They posted back:

ANY OTHER ‘RAGGY DOLLS’ OUT THERE WANT TO JOIN ME?